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Proof of Love Ep. 7 Tantric Sex with Ben Tantra Punk Rebroadcast TPP193

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Ben Tantra Punk PicIn this episode I share a rebroadcast of my interview on the Proof of Love podcast, below is the original show notes, please subscribe to Proof of Love!

What can one say about a crypto tantric episode other than wow.  This is our spiciest Proof of Love yet! Ben Tantra Punk joined Stephanie and I to discuss this ancient practice.  In between a few laughs and blushes, we get a great overview of tantric lovemaking, how it’s different from regular lovemaking, the history of why there is tantric sex in the first place, and the joys of the female orgasm.  We went a bit over on time, but I don’t think you will mind with this subject matter! We need more love in our lives, and this episode will show you how to put some of these teachings into practice, even if calling each other goddess in bed is a little uncomfortable.

About the Guests:

Ben Tantra Punk is a sex worker, feminist porn performer, certified permaculture designer, certified tantric counselor, author, film maker, and recording artist. He’s found healing and empowerment through sacred loving arts, ecological gardening, shamanism, ecstatic trance dancing, martial arts, and open source technology. His ongoing independent short film series, Sexorcism the Tantric Opera, was launched in early 2017. It tells his story of recovery from childhood sexual trauma, adolescent sex trafficking, and the path of a wounded healer. His first book, Psychedelic Goddess Worship: Erotic Memoirs from the Astral Battlefield, is planned for release in late 2019.

He loves to help tantric seekers discover the infinite source of divine love from above, the eternal power and wisdom from the Earth below, and the bliss of conscious, healthy, diverse romantic relationships in between. He provides private coaching and counseling sessions online and in-person, and teaches publicly via livestream on the Ethereum powered SpankChain camsite at: https://beta.spankchain.com/TantraPunk His writings, music, podcasts, videos and contact info can be found at https://www.TantraPunk.com.

Do you have a burning question, or a show idea for us?  Please email us at tatiana@proofoflovecast.com!

Live Tantric Lovemaking Webcam Sessions Offered by iX-Chel Sandivel and Christian TPPM01

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In this mini episode I’m blessed to share and promote a rare and exciting offer from iX-Chel Sandivel and her beloved Christian. They are taking a bold leap into the world of live lovemaking on the web for exclusive private video chat clients.

This is a herstoric opportunity to witness for a limited time the expression of highly cultivated elite mastery of the loving arts of tantra yoga.

Please email iX-Chel for more details on their lovely offer and visit her website at: http://ixchelsandivel.com/

About iX-Chel:

iX-CheL Sandivel is an intimacy artist & mentor passionate about creating safe and expansive experiences that allow the human spirit to evolve into new levels of ecstatic awareness, confidence and self love. Former Nike Elite Nationally Ranked long distance runner and model, iX-Chel has been practicing and teaching Tantra for over 8 years. She leads events around the world based on Tantra Yoga & Dance with a contemporary twist. Tantra is a conscious ceremonial practice full of yogic arts, mediations, rituals and techniques. This eastern philosophy allows human beings to increase their awareness, confidence, pleasure, intuition and connect with their inner most innate truth, wisdom and creative expression.

About Christian:

Christian is a restaurant owner, yogi, artist and designer living in Mexico. Extreme, edgy and addictive behavior as early as Christian can remember. This includes early forays into his sexuality. In his extremely early teens he was highly sexually active. Without discernment he felt to be a highly sexual being and recalled sex being his first “high.”

Soon thereafter alcohol and drugs mixed with sex became a normality as well as a coping mechanism in his life. A poor and unhealthy introduction to his sexuality. In his late teens, he had his first encounter with a much older tantrica who started to ground him in the healing properties of sexuality. Soon thereafter he experienced true love for the first time and realized the far reaching complexities to sexuality.

After those years Christian became a professional percussionist in Los Angeles and worked with a lot of great bands like Janes Addcition. He lived a life of severe access both chemically and sexually. This period ended in a complete crash. Losing relationships and those he loved the most and all his freedom. In the path of recovery, he discovered yoga and meditation. Also, he connected the importance of love, sex and intimacy and its extraordinary healing properties. After the crash he did a complete conscious introspection, from seemingly innate tendencies, to patterns that developed from early abuses taken on as a child. On the path to recovery, honest awareness and self love, he began to awaken the real lover inside and develop a true relationship to his sexuality.

Consciously choosing to openly celebrate sexuality mixed with true love which is endlessly expansive and beautiful, Christian believes in exposing this journey because there’s nothing shameful in the celebration of sexual openness particularly met with real love.

 

Relationship Contracts and Tantric Games with John Hill TPP117

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In this episode I’m joined by John Hill, a highly accomplished modern tantric innovator. First, he shares the highlights of his extensive personal life history of exploration and training within various schools of tantric thought and practice. We later discuss his novel approach to teaching tantra through games that through the process of playing, participants can develop tantra based skills and teachings within a more playful frame. We also compare notes on the practice of designing relationship contracts that greatly enhance the functionality of romantic relationships of all kinds.

Please connect with John at:
https://www.facebook.com/john.i.hill.5

johnihill [at] gmail [dot] com

About John:

My life has been a series of adventures, both physical and emotional. Over the last 30 years, after I discovered the path of Tantra, the adventures have intensified and have been more about awakening – awakening desire and exploring the potential of who I am and what I can create. Much of my awakening has been through a wide variety of classes, workshops and programs focused on our relationship with our mind, body, breath, emotions, and spirit. My exploration has taken me through some of my biggest challenges, which coincidentally, happen to be areas that many find challenging – money, sex and power. I’ve been able to create what some might call miracles in each area.

However, you might never have heard of me. I might be the best kept secret in the world of Tantra. Part of this is due to a sense of humility that comes from my introverted nature, as well as my Japanese roots where it’s not about standing out. Part of it is due to the fear of my power and becoming a public figure. However, it’s time to come out of the shadows and shine my light. I have too much to offer to play small. I invite you to join me and embark on your own Tantric Adventure.

Seeking the Heart of Tantra with Nirmala Nataraj TPP57

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Nirmala pic In this episode I am joined by Nirmala Nataraj. I discovered her great works in a search for a teaching on the symbology within the Kali Yantra and found her article.

She has graciously blessed the podcast by sharing her story of personal transformation through Tantra and Goddess Kali worship. She holds sacred space for me to share some of my revelations and research and generously provides validation of and guidance for many of my most controversial discoveries.

Together we weave a mutually affirming narrative of personal healing and spiritual growth through our devotion to Kali. We emphasize the need for preparation, care, and caution when approaching her might and magic. We also encourage listeners to find supportive fellowship as they rediscover and reinvent Kali’s vast primordial irrepressible nature.

Nirmala shares a description of the Kali Yantra and conducts a devotional guided meditation using the Yantra.

We close with a brief discussion on sexual healing and empowerment through tantra and she offers some great advice for individuals and couples to break through repressive cultural conditioning and reclaim the power and beauty of sacred love making.

Please connect with Nirmala and access her services via her websites:
http://sacredfirecoaching.com/
http://nirmalanataraj.com/

About Nirmala:

I’m Nirmala Nataraj, a San Francisco Bay Area-based Desire Guru and Taboo Slayer (and you can find me at my day job here)!

Sacred Fire Desire Coaching is my way of connecting directly with those who want to embody their truth. My wish to expand people’s repertoire of tools and resources through creative problem-solving is paramount in my approach. I especially love to work with people to clear some of the obstacles that keep them from expressing their deepest truths—obstacles such as shame, past experiences of trauma, and the inability to embrace and integrate every last part of themselves.

For me, healing is something that happens when we are willing to wrestle our demons…and then become their friends (which also happens to be a recurring theme in my writing). I’m also interested in inspiring my clients to view relationships, intimacy, and sexuality as viable and rigorous paths to personal development and purpose.

My training background includes the OneTaste Coaching Program, the Co-Active Coach Training Program, and the Bay Area Nonviolent Communication (NVC) Immersion Program.

Empowered Love Shadow Work with Shiva Rajaya TPP40

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tp-shiva-rajaya-picIn this episode I’m joined by my cherished tantric superhero Shiva Rajaya. We discuss empowered methods of dancing with the shadows of love and eros. We also discuss the levels of refinement and discpline required to be in a sexual and romantic flow state, beyond typical closed relationship configurations.

 

About Shiva:
Hi! I am Shiva Rajaya (Francisco Bujan), creator of vitalcoaching.com and its content. I offer coaching and tantra sessions, lead workshops and travel the world on wild spiritual adventuresI coach, teach, activate, lead by example, merge with the ultimate life force thay sustains us. I give you tools to remove obstacles to total happiness, success or fulfillment of your deep potential. My life is an ongoing exploration and experiment to master my energy, mind and spirit and help others do the same. I love you and look forward to connect with you soon.

http://www.vitalcoaching.com

How to Have Sex Like a God TPP17

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medibation-video-buttonIn this episode I read an essay I originally wrote several years ago to document my study of Francesca Gentile’s Sex, Tantra, and Kama Sutra Podcast. After listening to every episode I felt compelled to summarize the highlights of what I learned and create a simple introductory practical guide to spiritually conscious sexual union. I recently revised it for publication at the Good Men Project, and I’ve recorded a spoken word version here.